I don't know if it's something in my mind or my hormones but some foods just get me hot and the chance for great lovemaking goes way up after my man has arranged for us to eat in style. I especially get turned on when my partner has gone out of his way to prepare an aphrodisiac dinner.

It isn't just the lovers' food themselves of course but the smell and the way it is presented on the plate can really raise my mood and start my mind going into sexual overdrive. Setting the mood is one of the biggest factors and a guy who can plan this out and then carry on in that "nonchalant way" really has me before I even take the first bite.




Set the Right Romantic Mood

Setting the mood can include any or all of the following accoutrements such as candles, the best silverware, crystal, and maybe even some flowers or a special beverage with a pleasing display on the bottle. His outfit as he sits down next to me at a nicely set table has a way of arousing me beyond words and the images tend to flash in my mind again and again after we have moved into the bedroom.

Of course, a good bottle of wine plays a role. Did you know that research published in a 1994 issue of British scientific journal, Nature, claimed that alcohol can boost the levels of libido in women?!? So choose your bottle of wine wisely!

The colors at the table setting are also very important so think "red, pink and white" as well as the classy "black and white" formal setting with the lights dimmed down low. Once the mood is set, I seem to settle into the idea of sex in only a few short minutes and the guy doesn't really need to say anything else for the rest of the night!


Food Foreplay

If your woman tends to be a bit more reserved, you can move into something a little more serious with Oysters Rockefeller. Fresh Washington oysters are a great aphrodisiac and you can really go all out by topping them with a creamy mix of spinach, smoked bacon and fennel followed by a touch of anise to make an amazing impression on her. This is something that gets anyone's heart racing because oysters tend to have a mind altering affect on both men and women.

Another sure fire hit for the ladies is drunken lobster salad. This requires a bit more preparation but it mainly consists of some sweet poached lobster tossed with spinach greens, fresh avocado and maybe even some luscious grapes. I love to taste those luscious grapes in my mouth as I fantasize about having him carry me into the bedroom and devouring me for his dessert.


Chocolates are a MUST!

If nothing else seems to disarm your sweetheart, chocolate has got to be one of the most powerful aphrodisiacs and is the one thing that always gets me swooning into his arms. Even the nerdish scientist knows that chocolate can elevate a girl's mood and start her thinking all kinds of dirty thoughts about her man. Use your brains fellows!

Some beautiful chocolate hearts or a box of chocolates decorated in a beautiful presentation can bring any girl to her knees and all you have to do is smile after that and the rest is going to be destiny.

Just remember everything I have told you and you shouldn't ever go wrong with a romantic aphrodisiac dinner with your lover again. Next time you want to put her in the mood for some bedroom action, you'll have a sure fire plan for success because you will have set the mood well ahead of time. Then you will see how true it is that a man of very little words can truly stimulate a girl long before he even lays a hand on her.

A little bit of pre-planning and arranging for things to look nice will take all the pressure off worrying what she thinks of your aphrodisiac dinner. Instead, it will be everything you don't have to say and the preparation and your attention to detail will have already done all the talking for you.

Be the lover who can let his woman do all the talking as he sits back and confidently allows his aphrodisiac menu to take affect. Then you will be the man who knows how to pamper his sweetheart and listen to her in those quiet, romantic moments when she is ready to please him as well.

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Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
Gabrielle Moore is the co-author of The G-Spot Code. It teaches men how to please women with G Spot orgasms every time.