I was asked several times by members what is the best way to find like-minded partners to their kinks and fetishes.
Here's what cums to my mind. Feel free to add your own tips, tricks, and suggestions below.
- Practice and use member search, and address (politely) reasonable candidates via PM (private message). You can also send a friendship invitation to these potential peers and partners.
- Describe in Hello World exactly what you are looking for.
- Tell other members a bit more about your sexual inclinations in the free-text area on your profile called "Other things you'd like to tell us about yourself?".
- Be active on Fetish Exchange and other rings to create more attraction, credibility, and visibility.
- Create one or more photo albums on your profile for the same reason.
- Write creatively on your blog about your desires, fantasies, and experience (or lack of).
As a rule, you will most likely focus on members that leave an active trail in OUR community, so don't forget to follow suit and leave yours, and I ain't talking about cum stains and squirted flood alone
And most important of all...
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.