As far as vanilla crowds are concerned, fetishes are generally viewed as acts of humiliation and degradation. You are either a master or a slave. Dirt or superior... Well, looking at it from the inside, in our opinion, things aren't quite so simple. LordOfTheRings and I, PassionMistress, feel that in addition to their dark, mysterious, "depraved" reputation, there is also a truly beautiful side to fetishes and kinks. We want to show how fetishes can also be seen as tools - extreme maybe, but still - to express one's boundless love for and intimacy with the other, to show them as psychological tools for practicing giving away control, trusting others completely, and re-living those parts of our life which we either doubt or which are in need of amendment and healing.

FetishRings is a site created for all of us kinksters, perverts and sexual deviants, for enjoying our kinks, sharing them with like-minded others, a place to express our fetishes without the need to edit ourselves to fit into the vanilla majority. The site saw daylight in the summer of 2008 when we, LordOfTheRings and PassionMistress, realized that most of the fetish and sex sites on internet are mainly focused on dating and hooking up in real life and that actual, joyous, in-depth discussion about the perversions we so dearly love, is fairly diminutive elsewhere. Meeting kinksters in real life for some action and fetish plays is fun - but we feel also, that whenever such a chance isn't available due to one reason or other, virtual fet play is, or should be, possible and almost as much fun as the real thing.

So we came up with FetishRings, for our own enjoyment to begin with... because we love to talk, read, write and fantasize about anything that has to do with our kinks, fetishes and sex in general, just as much as we love bringing our fantasies into reality. And while imagination alone is a major turn-on, we will not stop at that; we love to watch also, to see pictures and videos of our pet fetishes, of ourselves, of others - and we want to invite you and others, who possess equally kinky minds to join in the fun with us. As for the videos, we are a tiny "mom and pop operation" still, and have no resources to show full length videos, but we are affiliates to the site where you can purchase and see such, if you wish. In the future we have plans to start up a shop specifically designed to cater to fetish needs; toys for the kinksters, from the kinksters!

LordOfTheRings and I are not part of corporate world, we are sexual deviants just like you and any other fetish lover. We started FetishRings in order to create a home away from home for all the kinksters, to make new friends who share our perverted mindset; to get to know, meet and play with them - play with you - to fulfill fantasies and to create great, lasting friendships, even relationships, both in the virtual and real world. We hope to see like-minded people find their way to FetishRings and feel right at home, totally accepted and free to express their desires boldly, joyfully, actively, without fears, reservations or being censored - and then spread the word around. We want FetishRings to grow up and to see it become the kind of favourite hang out for you and the kinkster community as it already is for us. To some day see FetishRings be a "family" of kinksters all actively contributing to our shared experience, would make us happy, and it means a lot to us to have you here with us, helping to make it a reality. Welcome aboard, we hope you will be with us for a long time and enjoy every moment of your stay.

the fetish is something cultural and fits in history well, there is something to be said for consenting adults to find ways to give absolute pleasure to one another without being ostrasized by the society they live in, why do we put ourselves in a catagory of sexual deviants, isn't sameness deviant in it's boredom, we are sensual creatures and to deny that is paranoid and delusional at the least, higher level species involve in sexual play and self pleasure as acts of exploration,